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Love Your Haters

Big Phil's Nook
3 min readNov 28, 2020

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I wish I had known that everyone had haters earlier than now.

Haters’ are always going to hate, hate and hate when there is even no reason for the hate. People who hate have a deep sense of jealousy which causes them to behave the way they do. We all agree that it’s not easy to shake off haters and jealousy. We all have a tendency to feel hurt and discouraged by hate, even when we don’t know the person causing it. Everyone has a unique way of dealing with haters and jealous people.

Mother Theresa with all the good she did had criticism and hatred directed at her. It doesn’t matter who you are, your skin colour, religion, race or what positive influence you are trying to make it the world; haters will always exist. Nobody is exempted from jealousy and hatred from others, we are all subject to its cruelty and just have to develop ways to deal with it.

It can hurt really bad to have a friend who is jealous because the actions and emotional expressions of a jealous person are not kind or loving. When it comes from a friend or loved one, we take it more personally. However, you need to understand that their jealousy is caused by their own underlying issues and it is not your fault.

The emergence of haters in your life is a signal that you have achieved a certain level of success. It’s a sign that you are making progress towards achieving your…

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Big Phil's Nook
Big Phil's Nook

Written by Big Phil's Nook

A balanced cloud computing expert and founder of Kallimera. I consider myself a world citizen, who gets my inspiration from the people I meet along my journeys.

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